Becoming a Surrogate Mother:
Transforming Lives Forever
Create miracles for others and fulfillment for yourself.
Grace Surrogacy Experience
A Journey of Giving, Receiving, and Unmatched Support
The decision to become a surrogate mother with Surrogacy GRACE is a profound journey of love and selflessness that doesn’t just change the lives of intended parents, but yours as well. Throughout every step of the process, we are committed to prioritizing your health, well-being, and peace of mind, enveloping you in our constant support and guidance.
A surrogate mother, often referred to as a gestational carrier or gestational surrogate, is a woman who carries a baby for individuals or couples (the Intended Parents) who are unable to conceive or carry a baby on their own.
At Grace LLC, we work exclusively with gestational surrogates. This means that our surrogate mothers do not use their own eggs and share no genetic ties with the baby they carry. The embryos are created using the eggs from the intended mother or an egg donor, ensuring a clear genetic lineage for the intended parents.
Surrogate mothers are more than just carriers; they are the bearers of hope and joy for those longing to be parents. They are women who have had their own children, enjoyed their pregnancies, and often have completed their own families.
They are women who understand the profound joy of parenthood and wish to help others experience this unique happiness. Surrogate mothers are compensated for their invaluable contribution, and their rights and responsibilities are protected by a legal contract agreed upon by both the surrogate mother and the intended parents. This ensures a clear understanding and mutual respect throughout the journey.
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Considering Becoming a Surrogate Mother?
Welcome to Surrogacy GRACE.
Surrogate mothers are extraordinary, altruistic women who help make the dream of parenthood come true!
Deciding to become a surrogate is a significant decision! It’s natural to have many questions and to want to learn as much as possible about surrogacy, the surrogate mother process, what it takes to be a surrogate, and just how rewarding the journey can be.
At Surrogacy GRACE, we support women at all stages of their surrogacy journey: women who are ready to apply now, and women who are still weighing the pros and cons of becoming a surrogate mother and perhaps want to spend more time speaking with experienced surrogates or Surrogate Advisors.
A great first step is to fill out our surrogate application so you can connect with our team. Completing the application allows us to get to know you better – it doesn’t mean you are starting a surrogacy journey immediately!
If you’re not ready to fill out an application and would like to talk to us before, give us a call at (844) 557-2412.
Your Experience with Surrogacy GRACE
Why Become a Surrogate with Surrogacy GRACE?
Choosing to become a surrogate is a profound decision, one that stems from a deep desire to help others. At Surrogacy GRACE, we believe that surrogacy is more than just a process—it’s a journey of giving the precious gift of life.
The Gift of Life
Surrogacy is more than a process—it's a remarkable journey of love, compassion, and generosity. It's about making dreams come true and giving the ultimate gift: a baby. At Surrogacy GRACE, we deeply respect and appreciate our surrogate mothers for their selfless act of giving and their role in creating families.
Join an Exclusive Community
Becoming a GRACE surrogate also means joining an exclusive community of like-minded women. Unlike other agencies, our surrogates are part of a close-knit community where experiences are shared, and lifelong friendships are formed. You'll be part of a sisterhood of extraordinary women who understand and share your journey.
Financial Compensation
While the emotional rewards of surrogacy are immense, we also understand the time and energy you invest in this process. That's why we offer competitive financial compensation. It's our way of saying thank you for your incredible act of love and generosity.
Why choose us
Why Choose GRACE as Your Surrogacy Agency?
Experience and Expertise
With a team of medical professionals, legal experts, and experienced surrogates, Surrogacy GRACE offers unparalleled knowledge and experience in the field of surrogacy. Our Surrogate Director, Ashley has completed a total of 6 surrogacies herself. Who better to guide you through this journey? We're here to answer all your questions and guide you through every step of your journey. Our combined experience sets us apart from other agencies, ensuring you receive the highest level of care and support.
Comprehensive Support
Our mission is to support you from the beginning of your journey to the end... and beyond. We believe that every surrogate is special, and we're committed to ensuring your happiness, comfort, and well-being throughout the process. Our dedicated support goes above and beyond, anticipating your needs and ensuring your journey is as smooth and rewarding as possible.
Smooth Journey
At Surrogacy GRACE, we work tirelessly to ensure a smooth journey for everyone involved.
Join us at Surrogacy GRACE and embark on a journey of love and compassion. Experience the joy of making dreams come true while receiving the support, respect, and compensation you deserve. With Surrogacy GRACE, you’re not just a surrogate—you’re part of our family. Your journey as a surrogate mother is a blessing, a testament to your strength, and a celebration of life.
Navigating Surrogacy with Grace
5 Essential Insights About Being a GRACE Surrogate
Embarking on a surrogacy journey is a significant decision, and it’s important to be well-informed. Here are five key insights to understand before you begin your journey with Surrogacy GRACE.
Surrogates Don't Contribute Their Own DNA
In the surrogacy process at Surrogacy GRACE, we specialize in gestational surrogacy.
Surrogates Receive Compensation Throughout Their Journey
At Surrogacy GRACE, we value the time, effort, and dedication you bring to this journey.
Surrogates Have a Say in Their Matching Process
We believe that a successful surrogacy journey is built on mutual respect and understanding.
Surrogates Participate in the IVF Process
As a surrogate, you'll be an integral part of the IVF process, which includes administering injections as part of the preparation for embryo transfer.
Surrogates Experience a Joyful Goodbye
One of the most beautiful moments in the surrogacy journey is when you, as a surrogate, get to hand over the baby to the intended parents.
Surrogate Mother Requirements
Your Journey Begins Here
At Surrogacy GRACE, your health, well-being, and readiness for the surrogacy journey are our top priorities. We’ve established certain qualifications to ensure a successful and fulfilling journey for you and the intended parents.
You must have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery. This requirement ensures that your body can safely carry a pregnancy and that you understand the physical and emotional demands of pregnancy.
You must be a resident or citizen of the United States with proper documentation. This is important for legal and logistical reasons. Additionally, if you're applying to be a surrogate for the first time, you should be between the ages of 21 and 40. For repeat surrogates, your medical screening must be completed before your 41st birthday.
Your Body Mass Index (BMI) should not be greater than 32. A healthy BMI is crucial for a safe pregnancy and reduces potential risks for both you and the baby. Calculate My BMI.
You must be in good physical and mental health. Surrogacy is a journey that requires physical strength and emotional resilience. We'll conduct thorough health screenings to ensure you're ready for this journey.
You must be compliant and available on schedule. The surrogacy process involves various medical appointments and legal proceedings that require your presence and cooperation.
You must have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery. This requirement ensures that your body can safely carry a pregnancy and that you understand the physical and emotional demands of pregnancy.
You must be a resident or citizen of the United States with proper documentation. This is important for legal and logistical reasons. Additionally, if you're applying to be a surrogate for the first time, you should be between the ages of 21 and 40. For repeat surrogates, your medical screening must be completed before your 41st birthday.
Your Body Mass Index (BMI) should not be greater than 32. A healthy BMI is crucial for a safe pregnancy and reduces potential risks for both you and the baby. Calculate My BMI.
You must be in good physical and mental health. Surrogacy is a journey that requires physical strength and emotional resilience. We'll conduct thorough health screenings to ensure you're ready for this journey.
You must be compliant and available on schedule. The surrogacy process involves various medical appointments and legal proceedings that require your presence and cooperation.
GRACE Surrogacy Journey
A Step-by-Step Guide
Embarking on a surrogacy journey is a profound act of love and generosity. At Surrogacy GRACE, we’re here to guide you through every step of this journey, ensuring you feel supported, respected, and cherished. Here’s a step-by-step guide to our surrogacy process:
Once you've reviewed the surrogate mother requirements and believe you qualify, we invite you to complete a quick survey. This initial step helps us understand your readiness to embark on this journey and ensures that you meet the basic requirements to become a surrogate. This is your first step towards making a profound difference in the lives of others.
During this call, our surrogacy director will explain the process in detail, answer all your questions, and help you understand the beautiful journey you're considering.
We'll assist you in collecting your medical records from previous pregnancies and deliveries. These records will be meticulously reviewed and shared with the IVF clinic to pre-approve you as a surrogate candidate. Your health is the foundation of this beautiful journey.
This visit allows us to get to know you in your own environment and understand your support system. It's about building relationships and ensuring that you have the love and support you need throughout this surrogacy journey.
We'll guide you through the process of providing and filling out necessary documents for our program. This includes application forms, background checks, and release of information forms. This step is crucial as it is the final step before you officially enter our program.
We take great care in matching you with intended parents. We consider your interview responses and other factors to ensure a successful match. Our goal is to match you with parents you can connect with and form a meaningful bond.
You'll visit the IVF clinic for a comprehensive medical screening. This includes blood work, urine tests, vaginal ultrasound, a physical examination, and consultations with the doctor and coordinator. You'll also meet with a psychologist to ensure you're emotionally ready for this journey.
The results of these tests will determine if you're medically and psychologically approved as a surrogate. This is a crucial step in ensuring your health and readiness for the journey ahead.
Once you're approved, the intended parents will initiate the legal stage to finalize the Gestational Agreement. We'll connect you with an attorney to help you review and understand the agreement. Once everyone agrees, all parties will sign the agreement, and the legal clearance will be sent to the clinic. This is a pact of love, trust, and mutual respect.
Upon receiving the legal clearance, the IVF clinic will release the embryo transfer schedule. This schedule includes the date you'll start medications and the estimated embryo transfer date. The embryo transfer will take place at the IVF clinic.
About 10 days after the embryo transfer, the clinic will confirm your pregnancy via blood test results. We advise that you refrain from sharing any home pregnancy test results with the intended parents before the blood results. This is a moment of pure joy and the realization of dreams taking shape.
Throughout your pregnancy, we'll be there to support you and ensure both you and the baby are doing well. If you live in Southern California, we'll accompany you to four or more OBGYN appointments to provide support and follow up with the OBGYN.Our unwavering support is a testament to the importance of this journey.
We'll help you prepare for the big day! We'll handle all the paperwork, insurance-related documents, and legal documents at the hospital. If you live in Southern California, we'll be there in person on the day you deliver to witness the miracle with you. It's a magical moment for us, and we love being a part of it.
Our support doesn't end with the birth. We'll be by your side for anything you may need after the birth, including follow-up doctor's appointments, medical records, reimbursements, and medical invoices. Your well-being remains our priority. We also offer psychological support with a professional if needed.
Becoming a surrogate mother with Surrogacy GRACE is an extraordinary journey of love, compassion, and miracles. It’s about making dreams come true and giving the ultimate gift: a baby. If your heart is calling you to this path, we invite you to apply today. Experience the joy of surrogacy while receiving the support, respect, and compensation you deserve.
Meet our Surrogacy Director
Ashley Gray
My relationship with GRACE is a unique one. Not only have I done 4 of my 6 surrogacy journeys with Surrogacy GRACE but I found GRACE while I was working as a 3rd party IVF coordinator for a fertility clinic, I had just decided that I was going to proceed with another journey and couldn’t imagine working with any other agency.
I was already working closely with GRACE as I only coordinated GRACE cases at the clinic, and I just loved how ethically & thoroughly GRACE handled their surrogacy journeys. After my first two surrogacy journey’s I was interested in being treated as more than just a number and GRACE made me feel as if I was their only surrogate in the company.
The personal touches and care given to me by GRACE made my last 4 journeys not only stress free but actually truly enjoyable. The employees at GRACE are among the most talented, caring, funny and organized people I have ever had the pleasure of sharing time with.
Their attention to details and commitment to doing everything 100% correctly is exactly what future surrogates should look for in an agency. I am truly thankful for GRACE &all they have done for me.
Surrogate Testimonials
Hear From Our Surrogate Mothers
“I decided to work as a surrogate to help provide for my family while still being able to stay at home with my kids. I absolutely loved working with all the amazing women that work at this company! I also loved the couple I got to help. This company feels like a family. If you're considering becoming a surrogate I would definitely recommend GRACE.”
Surrogate
“I had a wonderful experience working with GRACE as a gestational surrogate. They walked me through each step of the process and made me feel comfortable the entire time. I always felt supported throughout the pregnancy. Being able to help a couple ready to start their family was such an incredible experience. I remain in close contact with the family and am so grateful to have been a part of their journey.”
Surrogate
“My experience as a surrogate through Grace was EPIC! The overall support I received during my pregnancy and continue to receive to this day from Grace has made me feel loved, appreciated, honored, and sincerely cared for. I have been matched with a forever family and for that I am extremely grateful. Every step of the way the parents and Grace have welcomed me with open arms and the open relationship we have continues to make this a journey of a lifetime.”
Surrogate
“My experience with GRACE is one I’ll never forget. GRACE made my first surrogacy journey amazing and comfortable. From the start to finish everyone I encountered along the way, through every process was genuinely caring & extremely helpful. Definitely a home feeling, like family. I got matched with an amazing parent whom I’m still in contact with. He’s just amazing to say the very least. I brag so much about my experience with GRACE & everyone I’ve encountered during my journey & forever will. Becoming a surrogate is really My biggest blessing. My experience was so great I’m more than excited to be doing my second journey with GRACE”
Surrogate
"My journey of becoming a surrogate was a long awaited choice. My daughter has always been my world. Although we wanted to grow our family it didn’t happen for us. I wanted to show my daughter a creative, selfless way to give back. Surrogacy has helped me build up my hair business while maintaining flexibility to raise my daughter full time. Deciding to become a surrogate was THE biggest decision of my life. I was excited and nervous all at the same time. The incredible team GRACE put my mind at ease. From the beginning to the end I had so much support and never felt alone. Choosing GRACE as my agency was the best choice I made. I would’ve NEVER found the family I matched with, without them, the family who is now my second family....”
Surrogate
"My experience being a surrogate with Grace was honestly amazing and I wouldn’t change anything about my journey with them. I was a first time surrogate and from the initial meeting I knew I was in the right place with them. They made me feel like family. They were there by my side on multiple occasions when I needed them. They always kept me in the loop on everything that was going on during the process. All of the women that work for the company has perfect communication. I love them all so much they always made me feel as if I was special and a top priority to them. I am forever grateful to each of them.”
Surrogate
“I have been dealing with GRACE for a few years now from the beginning of me contacting them to the end of my surrogacy journey has been amazing. They have always gone over and above for me, from rides to just being there for support. Overall I would recommend them to everyone and would do it all over again.”
Surrogate
“GRACE was amazing to work with throughout my entire journey. From the moment I talked with them I felt like I was important, not just another number like I had experienced with other agencies before coming to GRACE. Every time I had a question or concern, they were there for me. I was matched with an amazing family and we still keep in touch, which is what we were both hoping for. I can’t wait to start my sibling journey with them and I can’t thank them enough for everything they’ve done for me.”
Surrogate
"....I am very lucky to have chosen them and as well been given the chance to give them this gift of life. The GRACE team was so supportive as well and helped me every step of the way. They were always available and responded in a timely manner. They made sure anything I was unsure of or had questions about they always explained sometime more thoroughly than the doctors and nurses. The GRACE team and my surrogate parents made my journey so amazing and memorable”
Surrogate
“My surrogacy journey was the most profound experience of my life, and I am so fulfilled to now work for GRACE and help others have that same monumental experience. Being a GRACE surrogate also impacted my family, and now can truly say we have grown stronger with the Future parents. We are all so grateful for this connection and the families that we come to know and love. I have witnessed many people struggle with fertility, and felt the pull to do more to help someone achieve their dreams of becoming parents. My surrogacy journeys have been the most rewarding, and fulfilling experiences of my life, and I am so happy to call my Future parents family! GRACE helped this dream happen! The most caring group of women I have ever met. They helped my journey from every aspect you can think of. My journeys have been so wonderful.”
Surrogate
Our Commitment to You
Surrogate Compensation & Benefits
Becoming a surrogate is an act of extraordinary generosity, and at Surrogacy GRACE, we believe in acknowledging this generosity with a comprehensive and competitive compensation package. But more than that, we want you to feel cared for, supported, and safe throughout this journey. We’re here to hold your hand every step of the way and welcome you into the Grace family.
How much do surrogates make?
If you are confused about anything you read in the benefits package, or would simply like further clarification, it is our pleasure to answer your questions. Please contact us, and a financial specialist will return your email promptly.
At Surrogacy GRACE, we understand that surrogacy is a deeply personal and life-changing journey. The compensation a surrogate receives is reflective of the commitment and dedication involved. The base compensation for surrogates with Surrogacy GRACE typically ranges from $55,000 to $80,000+. Additionally, surrogates can expect around $8,500+ in added benefits such as monthly allowance, travel expenses, lost wages, embryo transfer fee, maternity clothing fee, etc.
For those embarking on surrogacy for the first time, the base compensation plus benefits is $63,900. With each subsequent surrogacy journey, surrogates can expect an increase in compensation, approximately $10,000 more for each additional journey. This progressive compensation structure is our way of acknowledging the invaluable contribution of experienced surrogates.
In addition to your base compensation, surrogates with Surrogacy GRACE receive monthly spending money during their pregnancies and additional benefits and payments, including:
- Monthly Allowance: This covers your expenses such as mileage, parking, prenatal vitamins, and more.
- Maternity Clothing Allowance: Paid to you at 12 weeks and 20 weeks of pregnancy to help you stay comfortable and stylish.
- Medication Start Fee: You'll receive this when you start taking the medication prescribed by the IVF clinic.
- Transfer Fee: This is paid on the day of the embryo transfer to cover your lost wages, childcare, and bed rest.
- Compensation for Invasive Procedures: You'll be compensated for any invasive procedures you might have such as D&C, hysteroscopy, hysterectomy, cesarean, selective reduction, cerclage, surgical procedures to resolve ectopic pregnancy, abortion.
- Health Insurance Reimbursement: Your health insurance and all other insurance-related fees will be reimbursed.
- Lost Wages: Compensation for time off taken during the cycle to ensure that your financial situation remains stable.
- Travel Expenses: All travel expenses related to the surrogacy process are covered, ensuring a hassle-free journey.
- Psychological Support: We understand the emotional aspects of surrogacy and provide psychological support to help you through the process.
- Life Insurance Policy: A life insurance policy is provided to give you peace of mind and security for your family.
- Breast Milk Pumping Compensation: If applicable, you will be compensated for breast milk pumping, acknowledging the nourishment you are providing.
At Surrogacy GRACE, we are committed to ensuring that your surrogacy journey is supported in every aspect, recognizing the incredible gift you are giving.
Absolutely! As a surrogate, you will never have to pay any money out of pocket. All of your medical bills will be covered by the intended parents, and any legal costs will also be taken care of. This is all in addition to your surrogate compensation, meaning it does not come out of your payments.
Becoming a surrogate mother with Surrogacy GRACE is about joining a community that values your contribution, supports your journey, and celebrates your generosity. If you're ready to embark on this extraordinary journey, we invite you to apply today.
Yes! We want to make sure that you are comfortable with the future parents and that you are able to communicate with them easily during the pregnancy and after. We will show you as many profiles as you’d like so you are able to choose whom you would like to help. The future parents will also view your profile and agree to meet with you. It is important that the decision to move forward goes both ways.
Yes! As soon as all parties sign the surrogacy agreement we will share everyone’s contact information so you can be in direct communication with your future parents. All of our future parents want to be involved during the pregnancy, to know how you and baby are doing and support you as much as they can while respecting your privacy.
The fastest time is about 14 months from the day you decide to become a surrogate to the day you deliver. From the day you decide to become a surrogate to the day of the embryo transfer it will take about 5 months: 1. Intake process at Grace 2. Match with your future parents 3. Screening and medical clearance 4. Contracts and legal clearance 5. Start of the cycle and embryo transfer). And of course, the 9 months of pregnancy!
You will start the injections of progesterone about 5 days before the embryo transfer until you are 12 weeks pregnant. While this is the least favorite part for all surrogates it’s important to remember that these injections are essential to keep the pregnancy viable for the first few weeks. Also, due to the way the embryos are created in a lab, your first trimester is sped up, meaning that at the point of embryo transfer you are considered 2 weeks pregnant, ten days later at pregnancy test you are considered 4 weeks pregnant and ten days following pregnancy test at fetal heartbeat you are considered 6 weeks pregnant. So, 12 weeks comes much quicker than it sounds.
Yes! Your husband/partner will be involved during the surrogacy process and this is why we want to make sure that we also answer all of their questions during the intake process. During the medical screening they will have to be tested for STDs. During the legal process they will have to agree and sign the contract and all other documents, as they will be part of it as well.
No! The Future parents will create embryos using an egg donor or the intended mother’s eggs. You are not genetically related to the baby.
Yes! Since the future parents will not be using your own eggs you can be a surrogate (surrogate). The future parents will create embryos at the IVF clinic and the embryo will be implanted in your uterus.
At Grace LLC, we understand that surrogacy is a deeply personal and life-changing journey. The compensation a surrogate receives is reflective of the commitment and dedication involved. The base compensation for surrogates with Grace LLC typically ranges from $55,000 to $80,000+. Additionally, surrogates can expect around $8,500+ in added benefits.
You will start receiving your compensation the 1st day of the month after the heartbeat confirmation. For example, if the heartbeat confirmation takes place on March 30th you will receive your first compensation on April 1st, and every 1st of the month after. Your last compensation will be paid to you the day you deliver in one lump sum.
You will receive several reimbursements throughout the journey including but not limited to a monthly allowance to cover your mileage and miscellaneous expenses, injection and medication start fee, embryo transfer fee, and maternity clothing fee. Your health insurance premiums, your lost wages and restriction of activities in case of complications will be reimbursed.
No! The future parents are financially responsible for all pregnancy related expenses.
Surrogate FAQ
We are Here for You
Becoming a surrogate is a significant and beautiful decision, and we understand that you might have many questions. At Grace LLC, we are here to guide you, answer your queries, and ensure you feel supported every step of the way.
Here, we have gathered answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about being a surrogate and the surrogacy process. We want you to feel confident and informed as you consider this life-changing journey.
Still have more questions? Don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re here to hold your hand through this journey and answer all your questions.
Empowering Your Journey
Resources for Surrogates
Knowledge is power, especially when you’re considering becoming a surrogate. At Grace LLC, we believe in providing you with all the information you need to feel confident and informed about your surrogacy journey.
Explore how surrogacy redefines family for intended parents, breaks societal perceptions, and embraces new family models. Understand the emotional journey and technological advancements in surrogacy.
Explore Becky’s heartwarming surrogacy experience with Surrogacy Grace, where she has been a surrogate mother to same-sex couples three times.
Explore our comprehensive guide on preparing for surrogacy, with practical tips for surrogate mothers on health, emotional support, legal understanding, and more. Join the Surrogacy GRACE community for an enriching journey.