Resources for Surrogates

Becoming a surrogate mother is a journey of immense love and generosity. It intertwines the miracle of life with the gift of helping others create a family. If you meet the criteria and are wondering whether surrogacy is right for you, this guide highlights the key qualities, requirements, and inspiring stories that define successful surrogates.

1. Strong Physical Health

Good health is essential to provide a safe environment for the baby. Surrogates must have a history of healthy pregnancies and deliveries, maintain a healthy BMI, and avoid smoking, drugs, or excessive alcohol. Regular check-ups, balanced nutrition, and exercise ensure both your well-being and the baby’s.

2. Emotional Resilience

Surrogacy brings many emotions—from the joy of pregnancy to the complex feelings of carrying a child for another family. A resilient outlook, humor, and positivity help you navigate these challenges. Emotional readiness also means preparing for post-birth feelings when handing the baby to the intended parents.

3. Supportive Environment

Having family and friends who understand and support your decision makes the journey smoother. Their encouragement and practical help are vital to your success.

Testimonial:

“I decided to work as a surrogate to help provide for my family while still being able to stay at home with my kids. I absolutely loved working with the amazing women at Grace—this company feels like family.” — Vianetia J., GRACE Surrogate

4. Genuine Altruism

Surrogacy is rooted in compassion. Beyond the medical process, it’s about empathizing with couples who cannot conceive and wanting to give them the gift of parenthood.

5. You’re a Mother with Positive Past Pregnancy Outcomes

Ideal candidates have given birth at least once and had healthy pregnancies. This proves your ability to carry a pregnancy safely and gives you firsthand understanding of childbirth, morning sickness, labor, and recovery. Intended parents feel reassured knowing their surrogate has already experienced positive outcomes.

6. Understanding of the Surrogacy Process

Surrogates should have a solid grasp of the medical, legal, and emotional aspects of the process. Being informed sets the right expectations, prevents surprises, and strengthens trust with intended parents. Learn more about the Surrogacy Journey

7. Meeting Age Requirements

Most surrogacy programs require women to be between 21 and 40 years old. Younger women may lack emotional maturity, while risks increase after 40. This range ensures safety, life experience, and readiness for the unique responsibilities of surrogacy.

8. Commitment to a Healthy Lifestyle

A surrogate’s lifestyle directly impacts pregnancy. This means eating nutrient-rich meals, exercising safely, and prioritizing mental wellness. Avoiding harmful substances ensures the healthiest possible environment for the baby.