Resources for Surrogates

Embarking on the path of surrogacy is a luminous journey, illuminating dreams and forging unparalleled bonds. For aspiring parents and devoted surrogates, it’s a deeply personal voyage towards bringing new life into the world. Yet, the route is often obfuscated by a lot of misconceptions, casting unwarranted shadows on this profoundly beautiful adventure.

Here at Grace LLC, we aspire to be your guiding light, dispelling the mist of misconceptions with truths that empower and enlighten every surrogate and intended parent alike.

Myth 1: Surrogacy is only for the rich and famous.

While the media spotlights celebrity surrogacy stories, countless everyday individuals turn to surrogacy as a means of realizing their dream of parenthood. Financial arrangements, including financing plans, make surrogacy accessible to a broader range of hopeful parents.

Myth 2: The surrogate will want to keep the baby.

The myth that a surrogate will want to keep the baby is often fueled by sensationalized media portrayals and misunderstandings of the emotional and legal intricacies of surrogacy. A surrogate, especially one working with reputable agencies like Grace, undergoes a rigorous selection process, including psychological screening to ensure she is emotionally prepared for the journey. Surrogates enter this profound experience with a clear understanding that their role is to nurture the child for the intended parents.

A responsibility underscored by meticulously crafted legal contracts. These contracts not only affirm the intended parents as the legal guardians from the outset but also celebrate the surrogate’s compassionate contribution to this life-affirming journey. The moment of handing over the baby is not a point of contention but a cherished culmination, marking the shared joy and unity in bringing a new life into the world.

Myth 3: Intended Parents Can Back Out Anytime

Contrary to the fears and uncertainties that surround this myth, the reality of surrogacy is grounded in legal and ethical foundations. The misconception arises from a lack of legal knowledge and understanding of the intricate processes involved in surrogacy.

In truth, the legal contracts in place are binding and provide a secure framework that upholds the interests of the surrogate, the intended parents, and the child. These contracts are developed with the assistance of legal professionals who specialize in surrogacy and family law, ensuring that every aspect of the journey is legally safeguarded. The intended parents’ commitment is not just moral but legal, ensuring the surrogate’s efforts, time, and emotional investment are respected and protected.

Myth 4: The surrogate will live with the intended parents.

Hollywood has given us many misconceptions, this being one of them. Surrogates have their own lives, families, and homes. Their independence is both respected and necessary for a successful surrogacy journey.

Myth 5: Money is the sole motivator for surrogates.

Beyond any financial considerations, surrogates often embark on this journey out of genuine love, empathy, and the desire to make a significant difference in someone’s life. Their emotional, physical, and psychological dedication goes far beyond any monetary compensation.

Myth 6: The gestational carrier is related to the baby.

Contrary to popular belief, a gestational surrogate does not use her own egg and does not share any genetic link with the baby. The embryo is created using the intended parents’ or a donor’s biology, ensuring the surrogate has no biological connection to the child she’s carrying.

Myth 7: Bonding with the baby will be challenging.

The connection between a parent and a child is profound and unique. Many intended parents experience immediate bonding, especially if present during the baby’s birth, and others find their connection grows steadily over time.

Myth 8: Surrogates have no say during the journey.

This couldn’t be further from the truth. A Carrier Agreement ensures that any concerns or preferences from the surrogate are heard, discussed, and mutually agreed upon, guaranteeing respect for both the surrogate and intended parents throughout the journey.

Myth 9:  A Surrogate Mother Will Make More Money Without an Agency

There’s a common myth that surrogates can earn more by bypassing surrogacy agencies, but this is a misconception. While it’s assumed that eliminating the agency means more compensation for the surrogate, this overlooks the essential support and protections that agencies offer.

At GRACE, we ensure that every surrogate is not just fairly compensated but is also provided with comprehensive support throughout their journey. Our agency facilitates necessary medical screenings, legal contracts, and psychological support, ensuring a safe, ethical, and successful surrogacy experience.

Choosing to work with us means you’re opting for professional guidance, emotional support, and legal protections. We navigate the complexities of legal negotiations, medical coordination, and ensure the surrogate’s health and well-being are prioritized.