Resources for Surrogates

Be Prepared for a Range of Reactions

Reactions might span a spectrum, from admiration and support to skepticism or confusion. Be patient, and remember that their initial response may be due to a lack of understanding or personal beliefs.

Educate with Empathy

Most people have limited knowledge about surrogacy. When revealing your decision, it’s an opportunity to educate. Share facts, dispel myths, and discuss the rigorous processes and screenings involved in becoming a surrogate mother in California. Highlight the legal protections in place, the medical advances that make surrogacy safe, and the emotional journey you’re prepared to undertake.

Share Personal Stories

Connecting your surrogacy decision with a personal narrative can help make the concept more relatable. If you’ve seen firsthand the struggles of infertility or have been touched by a surrogacy story, especially those involving becoming a surrogate mother for gay parents, share it. Personal experiences often resonate more than abstract explanations.

Set Boundaries Early On

Ensure you communicate any boundaries regarding your surrogacy journey. Whether it’s related to privacy, the level of detail you’re comfortable sharing, or interactions with the intended parents, setting clear boundaries will help prevent misunderstandings later on.

Offer Resources

Having informative articles, blogs, or videos about surrogacy can be beneficial. Guide them to reputable sources where they can get unbiased, accurate information. This not only validates your decision but also allows them to delve deeper into the topic if they wish, exploring both the pros and cons of becoming a surrogate mother.