Resources For Parents

Embarking on a surrogacy journey is filled with anticipation, hope, and a deep emotional investment in the life you are about to welcome. For intended parents, the pregnancy phase often brings excitement alongside questions, especially around how involved you can be when you are not the one carrying the baby.

At GRACE, we believe that clarity brings peace of mind. Understanding what to expect during a surrogacy pregnancy allows intended parents to feel confident, emotionally connected, and fully supported, even when medical realities require certain boundaries.

Understanding Medical Boundaries During a Surrogacy Pregnancy

In the United States, fertility clinics and obstetric practices operate under strict medical and privacy guidelines. While policies vary by clinic, many do not allow additional attendees at routine appointments, and photography or video recording is often restricted.

For intended parents, this can feel unexpected. It is important to understand that these policies exist to protect patient privacy and ensure medical compliance, not to exclude intended parents from the experience.

Setting realistic expectations early helps avoid frustration and allows families to focus on what truly matters: preparing for their child’s arrival.

How Information Is Shared During the Pregnancy

Although intended parents may not attend every appointment, you are never left without information. Communication remains a cornerstone of a healthy surrogacy journey.

Through GRACE, intended parents typically receive:

• Updates following key medical appointments, when permitted by the clinic
  
• Ongoing communication with their surrogate, based on mutually agreed expectations
  
• Support from the GRACE team to explain medical updates and clarify next steps
  
  

This approach ensures that information is shared clearly, respectfully, and consistently, allowing intended parents to remain informed and reassured throughout the pregnancy.

Emotional Involvement Beyond the Doctor’s Office

Being involved in a surrogacy pregnancy extends far beyond clinical settings. Many intended parents find that emotional connection grows through everyday communication and shared milestones.

Regular check-ins, pregnancy progress updates, and meaningful conversations often become the foundation of a strong relationship built on trust and mutual respect. These moments help intended parents feel present, even when physical attendance is limited.

At GRACE, we guide both surrogates and intended parents in establishing communication styles that feel natural, balanced, and emotionally supportive for everyone involved.