Resources For Surrogates

In the heart of every family’s story, there are those who play pivotal roles in turning dreams into reality. Becky is one such remarkable individual. As a surrogate mother to same-sex couples not once, but three times, she has become a beacon of hope and a symbol of unconditional love. At Surrogacy Grace, we had the unique opportunity to sit down with Becky and delve into her extraordinary journey. Her story is not just about surrogacy; it’s about breaking barriers, celebrating diversity, and redefining the essence of family in our modern world.

Through this exclusive interview, Becky shares her motivations, experiences, and insights into the world of surrogacy. Her candid reflections offer a window into the emotional and transformative journey of a surrogate mother, shedding light on the profound impact her decision has had on the lives of others and on her own.

Question: “What initially sparked your interest in becoming a surrogate?”

Becky: “I actually have a very close family friend that was a surrogate with Grace. Twice. She had a sibling journey with the same family. Watching her go through the process, I knew I was done having babies, but pregnancy for me was not ever very hard. And so I felt like I could do it. And the more I researched why people turn to surrogacy, the more it felt like something that I didn’t just have the ability to do but also something I really wanted to do to help other people become families.”

Question: “What specifically drew you to Grace? What did your friend share about her experience with Grace that made you choose them over other agencies?”

Becky: “Looking at Grace and the way they walked through the initial process with me… there’s a lot of questions from both the intended parents’ perspective and the surrogacy perspective. I felt like Grace had a handle on it. They had answers, seemed knowledgeable, and had a lot of experience. That made me feel very comfortable and taken care of, even just at the beginning when I was asking questions about possibly starting a surrogacy journey. They were very involved, and that made me feel comfortable. As I’ve continued with them, that’s remained true. There’s never been a time when I was left by myself with a problem or concern. Life is crazy enough by itself. I wanted to do this, but if it became a challenge, more than a normal pregnancy kind of challenge, it would have been a turn-off. Knowing that Grace had my back was really important in deciding that I wanted to work with them.”