Resources for Surrogates

Sharing with Coworkers: Finding the Right Balance

• Decide Who to Tell

You may share with only close coworkers or your entire team — the choice is yours. Consider how surrogacy will affect your workplace and what’s necessary for transparency.

• Choose Your Words Carefully

Be prepared for questions, but remember you don’t owe anyone all the details. Prepare a simple explanation if you prefer to keep conversations brief.

• Respect Different Reactions

Coworkers may react with support, curiosity, or uncertainty. Focus on those who support you, and don’t feel pressured to justify your decision.

• Maintain Professionalism

Keep your discussions respectful. Share only what you’re comfortable with, while reinforcing that you remain committed to your work.

Additional Considerations

Legal and Medical Documentation

You may need to provide documentation to HR regarding leave or insurance. Grace can help guide you in understanding these requirements.

Ongoing Communication

Keep your boss and relevant team members informed of important developments. Open communication builds trust and ensures a smoother experience at work.

Conclusion: Your Journey, Your Choice

Breaking the surrogacy news at work is an important step — but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. By planning ahead, choosing the right time, and approaching the conversation with confidence and sensitivity, you can handle this moment with grace and professionalism.

At Grace Surrogacy, we are here to support you in every aspect of your journey — from legal guidance and emotional support to practical workplace conversations. Apply now to begin your surrogacy journey with Grace.